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Good bye 2015

I am. The most powerful  two words. Simple but powerful. As the year Draws to a close. Some are in the spirit of the festivities. Others are mourning dreams that have died, feeling like failures because they didn't accomplish their goals.  And some others are in the sombre mood of contemplation. Processing the year gone by. And planning the year ahead.

Looking at the past and learning from all the experiences rather than tearing yourself down because things didn't go your way is not the healthy route to take.

As the last hours of 2015 tick by. Lets reflect, let's plan, and let's decide to take action in 2016.

It begins with one step. A good idea and great plans lie dormant when action is not taking the lead.

I read and heard this saying or a variation  of it. And it truly makes sense especially at this turning point. "There are no wrong dreams and plans. But there are incorrect deadlines."

So those plans that didn't quiet take shape this year or the years gone by. No problem! Just refocus on it, visualise it, write it down with a new time frame that you want to accomplish it by. And guess what? If that goal is not accomplished by the new set date. NO PROBLEM. Learn, reshuffle a few action plans and set a new date.

Whatever you dream of is already a reality.  It's just a matter of time before it becomes a reality. 

Remember to repeat in presence: I am ...... whatever it is you want to become. Eg:  I am successful.  I am a healthy size 12.  Etc.

You are whatever you say you are.

You are already a success in 2016.

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